This is a continuation of my last post. This isn’t a new or fresh idea. I’m just rehashing what’s already been said. I think it’s important for new readers to understand.
Get on with it!
It doesn’t matter what you say or do. It only matters where it comes from. Are your actions coming from a state of abundance or desperation?
“How long should I wait to text?”
“Should I pay on the first date?”
“Should I do xyz or abc?”
It doesn’t matter. If it’s coming from a state of desperation it will always be received as such. If you’re doing something from a state of abundance it will always be received as such.
But how do I reach a state of abundance!?
Talk to more girls, you dunce! Have outcome independence! It’s terribly irrational to have oneitis. If you were in a room with
572,229,547 women and the first one you approached rejected you would you a.) dwell on it? b.) follow her around and double down? or c.) move on to the next chick?